Tuesday, August 30, 2011

You're Naked Inside Your Fear, You Can't Take Back All Those Years

I can't believe August is almost over. It's certainly been a month of ups and downs for me. Or maybe it's been downs and ups?
August started kind of down, then it was kind of up, then  it was really really down for a minute. Then up again! I got to go to Austin and spend time with my Tejas besties. I love those girls...like, seriously. I know that no matter what they're going to be there for me if I need anything. And I feel the same about them. Whatever I can do for them I will.
I had such an awesome time with Mena Thursday night, we went to see Blue October at HOB in Dallas. We discovered this amazing up and coming band called "IAmDynamite". The band consists of 2 guys, Chris&Chris. They were "SuperMegaFantastic". They were so great I had to buy their shirt! :) Mena had to work on Friday so I got chill with her worse/better half. Billy and I had good times telling crazy life stories and trying to top the other's story..lol. We got to have lunch at Sonic with Mena. This made me very happy because I'm a huge fan of Sonic. If you don't have Sonic Drive-In where you are, I'm very sorry for you. Friday after Mena got off work we headed to Austin, we didn't get there until late. We met Rachel, Erin, and Erin's almost-boyfriend at our hotel. Rachel, Mena, and I ended up staying in, while Erin and the almost-bf went out. The 3 of us..thanks to Rachel's extreme generosity, checked out Rachel's coupon book. It was one of the most amazing things I've ever saw..lol. I developed a great love for coupons thanks to this lady.
On Saturday we slept in...kinda..in all actuality Mena, Rachel, and I got up early and ate the most amazing hotel continental breakfast ever..lol. We're talking sausage links, ham, eggs, biscuits, gravy, toast, muffins, danish, waffles, english muffins, bagels...plus fruit, cereal, and all that jazz. It was crazy! Mena got about 18 single servings of peanut butter :) Then we went back to the room. I ended up starting a phone call that didn't end until about 3 hours later. I talked on the phone and everyone else slept..lol. Then we showered, got ready, and headed out to Torchy's Tacos. I got a fried avocado taco, it was delish. I also got an order of chips and green chile queso....I'm telling you what, I would drink their queso if it were socially acceptable! I love that ish. After Torchy's and some extreme coupon shopping we went back to the hotel where we rested, got ready, I took huge shots of Wild Turkey, then we went downtown.
Saturday night was crazy, we started out at El Sol y La Luna, where the sidewalk talker...I believe his name was Dustin told us that we should come in and have the special, which happened to be a pitcher of Long Islands for $10, he also told us if we ordered said pitcher to tell the bartender that Dustin sent us in. We decided this was the best idea...please keep in mind that I was already quite inebriated from the earlier mentioned shots of Wild Turkey. We sat at the bar and gave the the spiel about how Dustin sent us in for the "special". So the bartender hooked us up right with an amazing pitcher...I didn't know how it would work out that we end up with a "special" pitcher, but I quickly realized every time we weren't paying attention one of the bartenders would toss a few more shots in our pitcher..til it was almost pure alcohol. C-R-A-Z-Y! I was drunk by this time. I took pics with people I did not know, I shared a smoke with "Dustin"...it was a lot of fun :) We ended up at Touche next..I don't remember very much about this part of our adventure. Even though Touche is my fave bar, all I can remember is shots that tasted like Gatorade and removing my falsies (eyelashes) in the bathroom. Clearly, I had already consumed my limit of alcohol, BUT! We went to still another bar after that called "Jackalope". I had never been in Jackalope before, but I'll probably go back. I remember this man sat beside me..he tried to convince me that he was not gay, but I'm pretty sure he was. I really don't remember that guy's name, but I remember he was talking about being from Tulsa...lol. I remember the bartender "Kitty Korvette". I remember Mena wearing "Roger's" glasses. That is all. I don't remember anything after that until we were on our way back to the car and Rachel was sitting on the sidewalk crying. :( I remember being really sad and thinking if she didn't stop crying I was going to cry. I also remember so many people stopping that knew Rachel's name! They were asking if she was okay..lol. I loved it. I loved that so many people were concerned about her well-being, because she's one of the most amazing people in my life, I feel like everyone in the world should be considerate and concerned of and about Rachel's well-being. After that Erin and the almost-boyfriend met us, we went to the van, and then on to IHop. Rachel continued to cry, I almost cried, then we ate. The pancakes and coffee were fantastic, I'm convinced I was overcharged...I paid $20 for an omelette, tea, coffee, and a short-stack...really? LOL...I didn't care though, I was drunk, the food was good. We went back the hotel afterwards and I crashed out. I was sad to come home on Sunday. I made it home late and talked on the phone late. Woke up Monday morning and drug myself into work.
I forgot to mention! I almost got stuck in Texas! If it weren't for mom and Mike I wouldn't have made it home. I expected a child support payment on Saturday....I got one, but it was about an 1/8th of my usual payment. Adam however still cannot explain this. So I'm really not sure what happened. Nor am I going to get myself all worked up about it. Money is money, you don't need cash to come into this world and you don't need cash to leave it.
My baby's birthdays are next month. Riley will be 8! on 9/25. Jackson will be 4 on 9/11. Lulu will be 2 on 9/17....this is crazy in my mind. I can't believe my kiddos are growing up so fast. It makes me feel all maternal and kind of sad that I'm not going to have anymore babies. BUT...on the other hand, I'm so glad I don't have a tiny screaming drill sargent waking me up every hour all night long, and I'm done with diapers. Can't complain, right? lol.
This is the longest post ever. I'm going to try and keep up better in the future. I don't like having to type this much all at once. I have big weekend plans..no kids, I'm going to hang out with friends on both Friday and Saturday nights, I'm pretty excited about this. :) I love no kid weekends just as much and for different reason than I love kid weekends. I hope everyone has a safe and happy Tuesday evening!

Tuesday, August 16, 2011

you're out of line and out of time

"Shallow Bay"
come on
the sun will rise
another time
the colors blind
your virgin eyes
I'm so inclined
to make you mine
you're out of line
and out of time
[chorus]
and I float upon a shallow bay
lift me up until the ground gives way
I'm a California castaway
I don't think you wanna fuck with me
don't over kill
this painless thrill
it's bitter still
your pretty pill
you wait until
you've had your fill
I know you will
I know you will
[chorus]
a shallow bay
a shallow bay
[chorus x 2]
you live, you learn
you live, you learn
you live, you learn
you live

You live and learn, that's all I can say about this past week. That's all I want to say. As you all know, I live my life with no regrets, just lessons learned.

With that being said, today is a fan-fuckingtastic day! "Shallow Bay: The Best of Breaking Bejamin" released today!!! Of course I downloaded it first thing this morning. I love Breaking Benjamin with all my little heart. Polyamorous has been one of my favorite songs for 5 or 6 years and it's the fist song on the album! Happy days are here to stay.

ALSO, I washed my hair last night, and it fell into a perfectly straight middle part! I'm so excited about that ish..I can barely stand myself. Lol!

The biggest thing I'm excited about on this amazing Tuesday...I get to see Mena in 2 days! Blue October, House of Blues, Rachel and Austin on Friday. <3 How the fuck could this girl be any less excited today? It's a wonderful life.


Friday, August 5, 2011

Losing hope is easy when your only friend is gone.....

I don't know what's wrong with me these days! Actually..that's a lie. I know what's wrong with me. I have no babysitter...I haven't been out of the house for adult fun in 3 weeks. My best friends are far away. It makes me want to cry. I need to be in Texas, I need to be where people love and care about my well-being and mental health. I need time with my friends in a setting where I can just do me, where I don't have to worry that I'm going to say or do the wrong thing. I need an adult beverage dammit!
It's been 13 days since my last cigarette...I almost broke down and bought a pack today. It was serious...today was so bad that my boss told me I should smoke and drink at lunch. I almost quit my job. I said  "I'm ready to walk out of this place and never come back. I could leave now and not look back. I could be broke and lose everything I have and it will still be better than being here. I'm either quitting today, or you're going to end up firing me". Of course neither of those things happened, but I really probably could have been fired. My job is customer service. You might ask how do you give good customer service when you hate everyone around you? Here's what I do: I bitch at my boss all day. I tell him how much I hate life, how much I hate the company I work for, that I can't stand to hear the girl next to me speak because every word out of her mouth grates my nerves like an itch that you can't scratch. Aggghhhhh! I was gulping some haterade today...I brought my big orange cooler of haterade to work. I just need a night out people!!! Is that too much to ask? really? Is it too much to ask of you to take my children for 1 night a week so I can be mentally stable? I.think.not.
I have to go shopping for school supplies and clothes tomorrow...I'm not even looking forward to it. It's tax free weekend, so I feel like I have to..I'm obliged to buy clothes and supplies tomorrow. How can I not?! I dread being out there with the other 3 billion people who are shopping tax fee. These people are hardcore deal sharks. So am I to a point, but the people I'm going to shop with tomorrow are not my friends. Hopefully they let me get in, get what I need, and get out without opposition. I can't deal with opposition right, I need a drink.
It's Friday night...I'm ready to go out, but I have no where to go, no one to go out with, and no sitter. Hopefully I get to go somewhere tomorrow night, I will def let you know if I do!